I just can't take it anymore

[james217]

James, you certainly have realized by now that ALL WAS will blame, blame and blame some more. Not to mention your WAS is a special breed as she has some very serious problems. I don't think she is bipolar at all (and my sister is bipolar, very well managed for the past decade so I do have lots of experience with bipolar individuals).

Until you really stop obsessing over your W and what she did in the past and what she blames you for your life will never change.

Your W has cheated multiple times, has proven her parenting skills are not what they should be, is immature, has chosen not to address her emotional problems in the proper way and clearly has no ability to take accountability for her bad choices. NC will not change any of that about her.

If you don't start rebuilding your life (and yes, it is hard and yes, even harder when you have medical issues which I am also familiar with) you will be stuck at your parents house forever.

she's the one N.C. I'm worried and concerned. People are asking me if I've heard from her. I have no clue.

I don't know C.G. The meds she was on while in the mental facility point to hypomanic depression. She was supposed to go to outpatient and be on 3 types of pills.

Depakote (epileptic)
Celexa (depression pill for low moods)
Klonopin (pill for high moods)

so she has no balance. I'm also angry with the mutual friend. She knew that WAW was thinking about leaving. Did NOT say a word. She told me this last night and is all sorry now that she sees what is going on with WAW. WEll sorry aint gonna fix it.

WAW was NOT doing this type of crap. I'm telling you I talked to our cps I.C. yesterday and it totally shocked her to know WAW signed away SD8 because there was no need for us going to parenting classes or cps counseling.

She stated all WAW wanted was to get SD8 back.

Even mutual friend states she has been weird and has NOT heard from her in over a week (which isn't normal either)

Uggh I'm in a bad mood today. The mutual friend should have told the freaking MEDICAL POWER OF ATTORNEY what the heck was going on so I could have prevented it. I"m so fuccing upset right now.

I'm falling apart C.G. without my family I'm just sitting here trying to hold it together.