When H came this morning I opened the door just said brief hi and walked away to fold laundry. He followed me there and asked where that jacket was that he wanted. I said that I'd put bunch of his shoes and clothes in the garage...please go through it and take everything that you still want because I want to take it to charity.
There were also couple of paintings, portraits of him, that I'd put in the garage couple of weeks ago...he came rushing out and said you are not giving the paintings to charity, are you? I said no, I just put them there for storage, because I didn't want to have them displayed anymore.
My tennis racket was on the table...he asked? "are you going to play tennis?" I said "Yes". That reminded him of his racket so he went and got his to take with him.
I basically went on with my chores and gave him one word answers. And I don't think he was very happy.
When he was finished he said "are you at least going to look at me?" So I did...we were looking at each other for a few seconds and either of us said anything.
He was still lingering, saying that he needs something from D room, but doesn't want to wake her, so he will have to come back another time.
Offered again that he could come later today and at least cut the grass for me..."the front really needs it". I said sorry I'm busy today, I will take care of it myself.
Then he said "Besides our situation, why are you so angry with me?" (huh?) I said "I'm not angry I'm just getting on with my life and it's easier for me if I don't see you, or at least don't see you very often"
He said well we need to talk to each other, we need to discuss things....I said that's no problem, we can discuss anytime we need to.
So he finally started to leave...his shoulders down, very unhappy look...I just yelled BYE and continued with my chores...didn't see him to the door.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
