And I would gladly let you! Apparently X and OW are now married. When he gave me the support check today, he reached through my car door right in front of my face with his left hand, wedding band on it, even though he's right-handed. Classy move as usual. I am upset, although I don't know why. I do feel sorry for the kids, hating that OW will be their stepmom. Surprised they didn't say anything to me. Maybe he didn't tell them? Just another sad moment with the X, in a long series of them....