You need to consider if you want to be in a relationship with someone who treats you poorly.
Lotus,
So how come when I said his wife treated him this way (I think I said "boorishly," you jumped my case?
Maybe it was someone else; if so, I apologize. But I distinctly remember recommending to OIN that he stop putting up with his wife's disrespectful and rude behavior, and nearly everyone disagreeing with me.