RLay, I was reading through your thread and we have 1 thing in common, we are both from Kentucky! What you are going through is textbook for MLC. ILUBNILWY, I want to pursue other women to see if I love you, blah, blah. It all amounts to the same thing, he wants to relive his youth. I have seen this hundreds of times here. My advice to you is to have as little contact with him as possible. The more you try to contact him, the further you push him away. It has been my experience that this sort of behavior lasts for years and its not easy. Take a step back and work on yourself a bit and do protect yourself financially and otherwise.