I asked her her if her freind getting married feels that a couple of cheaters should be seen at a wedding together.
This is ok... You ARE picking a fight here, but I dont' think its that bad
Originally Posted By: twolf
She got mad and said their is no affair that i dont know what im talking about. Then MIL in the background said some thing and i said that people know that MIL is supporting this and what she has been saying about me. She hung up on me.
That's good... Keep your wife in the loop on what the town is saying about her... people don't like being gossipped about
Originally Posted By: twolf
Me....Do you seriously think that i'm a bad guy for trying to save our marrige and our family.I'm trying to have faith when i made my wedding said my wedding vows it was for better or worse' and this is the worse.So many people our on our side you dont even know it.
This is excellent
Originally Posted By: twolf
ME....Ok if thats what you want' butt when it comes to our son that we conceived do not hold my son back. Do not call me patetic when i mentioned what we went through and how we held each other and cryied. I dont like the fact that the other man is around our son. He was not their just you I and our parents. He will allways know that i fought my ass off to save our family. If that is pathetic i really feel sorry for your husband and sons dad.
Don't say "If that's what you want" Just keep hitting home the fact that the town is gossiping about her and that everyone knows she's cheating... NEVER VALIDATE anything she says that's negative... ignore it
Originally Posted By: twolf
ME....I know that you say that if it it makes you sleep better you keep telling yourself that. Just rember our son will be in a brocken home because his mom decided to take comfort in another man. I kept my wedding vows if this makes you sleep better then go for it, butt you and i will allways know what the truth is.
Don't say "go for it"... NEVER ENDORSE her to continue. Don't say stuff like that... just tell her
1. She's cheating 2. She's hurting her family 3. The whole town is gossiping about her 4. You are keeping your commitment
Those are the key points you want to stick to
Originally Posted By: twolf
ME.... I just want to ask you one thing. Would O/M fight for you if you were his wife hell no. Would he take a bullet for you or my son no. Butt i would and you know it. The next time you go out tell him that some one said some thing mean to you, who do you thimk would fight for your honor. I garantee not him.
Attack what he's doing instead : Would I hop into bed with a married woman who had a son AND a HUSBAND who wanted to save their marriage? That guy is SICK.. Keep him away from our son.
Originally Posted By: twolf
ME ....You have my att.. number, ive allready fought one false R/O and was proven in court that the things you said i said to you were false. you even addmited to the jusdge that i didn't say those things and the judge said if you dont want to take my calls or answer my text then dont answer them. This is public record so i have let everyone know that they can go to the court house and see the court report.that i'm not the bad guy that you would have everyone belive.... sincerly your husband and sons father...
This is pretty good, you want her to realize that the town thinks horribly of her.. she has an idea in her head that everyone thinks she's a poor helpless victim innocent of any wrongdoing... if you and the TOWN in particular can work to convince her that SHE is the bad guy as long as she's cheating, it will wear on her and the affair will more likely end.
Originally Posted By: twolf
ME....if im upsetting you so bad wy do you keep texting back and ive never called you any name so please stop. Buy the way Next time you call my att Which i didnt have on retainer and ask what im doing , i want you know that i have given permission for FIL to call i have nothing to hide.
This is good to... no name calling. Just focus on how embarassing what she is doing is to HER... she doens't want to be embarassed.
TWolf here is the secret ingredient : Women don't want to be seen with men the whole town thinks is a sleazeball
Your wife is working to LEGITIMIZE this guy.. taking him to weddings, denying they are having sex etc.... She wants the town to think this guy is mr cool.
If you keep hitting home to your wife AND you can get adequate support from the community to convince your wife this guy is NOT someone the town respects, she WILL DUMP HIM
Women do not want to date someone that no one respects, she wont' have anything to do with him.
YOU need to look like the pillar of the community while ruining this guy's name... NO LIES... just tell the TRUTH and EXPOSE him.. he's a sleazeball... make sure the town knows it and your wife won't want to be around him anymore
