Either I don't have much updates or all my DB friends have gone.
Once we came to the decision on the D proceedings things have calmed down. We're back to getting along and talking (casual chit chat).

Yesterday we had another productive MC session, and then went to dinner together afterwards. My W was also very happy that the two of us we're able to agree on something. The agreeing was the S arrangement and how we're going to handle the kids. We seemed to really enjoy each others company.

My IC told me that she commended us both for doing what we've doing. To both be going to IC and MC is a big deal. She also told me that even though we seem to talk about the R an awful lot, it's wonderful that we're talking. She likes the fact that we're able to talk.

Today we're going up to put some of the finishing touches on our rental property. After that we'll start our rotation process and give each other some much needed space.

That's where my situation is right now.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept