A few things...

My W does not know that I know so much. I did this with the assistance of a keylogger. If I bring up anything about the OM she will down play the situation unless I have facts to back it up and only way I can do that is expose what I had done, should I?

I has been a few days since the incident, is it too premature to have this conversation? Should i give it a week or so? If she is still hurt over OM, there is a great chance she will not even listen to me.

Which brings me to my next question...knowing that I probably won't people to get her attention long enough for her to hear what I have to say (if I bring up the situation or say something that upsets her, she will walk away and more than likely leave the house before I can finish) could/should I put it in writing?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10