Good luck Mila. I know that it is easy to get drawn into your h's drama even when you are busy in the house. Stay strong and yes let your h know you don't want to talk about it. Just smile and then say hey got to run do you have everything you need.
None of this is easy. I have learned much of this crisis is about control, so I always tried to not do things that appeared to be that I am controlling my h. That wasn't easy for me since I am a take charge control person by nature.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"