Has your DBng worked so good you're ready for a D?

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Well, any time one spouse sets up a test for the other, the tested one is probably going to fail. You might want to point that out to her.

I understand where you are; I am to the point where I am feeling good about myself minus X. It would indeed be very difficult to consider taking him back. This is not a bad place to be, though--it means that you are have detached. I have noticed that X looks more and more forlorn as I get happier.