lordy me what is happening, ex called son today to invite him for the weekly tea visit tomorrow, also asked son if he would like his printer and photo copier. Now come on guys chair first now this, these are the first things that ex has ever given his son since the day he moved out,. hope it isnt his way of thinking hes slowly moving his stuff into my home, oh forgot he did give son some of his old clothes, lol whatever next
well lordy me, it happened again, son went for tea, dad dropped him off, dad came down the garden path with a printer/scanner and handed it to son at the front door, stood chatting to son like some 10 foot behind where I was sitting, I swear it sounded like he was right behind me. the printer wasnt too heavy or awkward for son to carry himself so no need for ex to do this, as I have said he normally sits in the car and son has to go back and forth with things, getting scary now as to what the motive is in all this, lol x
Wonders never cease. I'll be curious to see what he does at the next tea time.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It's like playing in a park with him ---- sometimes, you're on the see-saw, then it's a merry-go-round, or he's out of the park, sulking. You're playing the game the only way you can. Watch and wait.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Snodderly and BeingMe, I thank you for your replies, and to be quite honest all I can do now is sit and watch, I dunno wots gone on in this mans head never have and never will, hes crazy but hey suppose theres worse than him out there, I am watching but definately not waiting, too long as gone by with any improvement, hes my sons dad and thats all x
Well, I texted H and told him if he ever needed to talk I would be there for him. Told him I will not bother him but would be a friend to him if he needed one. Didn't hear anything back but I didn't expect to.
Goodfight, give it time, you have done the right thing, at least you H knows the situation that you are available as a friend, he may reach to you as and when the time is right, hang in there
ML, I am always curious to see what is happening in your situation. I believe you will see your X continue to approach you cautiously and then back off.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
