I think you guys had some good ideas for what might be going on. I think Wolfie is depressed and having a real hard time with self-esteem issues right now. He hasn't been back to his therapist since he came home and has been very resistant to the idea of getting on anti-D's, even though that was recommended by both his therapist and doctor.
I think that when his thoughts get dark now, it scares him because that's how the whole episode started with the crazy-a$$ behavior.
...and now that I think about it, last week we DID have a conversation about what if the shoe had been on the other foot and I had cheated on him. Maybe that brought some fears up for him.
I can't read his mind, but it did seem obvious that he needed some reassurance from me. Yesterday, we were having coffee in the morning and I took his face in my hands, looked him straight in the eyes and told him that I hoped he knew how much I adore him. He kind of rolled his eye a bit and said that he knew, but he would never be able to understand WHY.
Sometimes it's hard to love someone that doesn't even think they deserve to be loved.
