Have you told you H about these texts? If not, I would and set a boundry that she is not to contact you for anything and make him aware that there are children involved. Ow may be insecure or something. She sounds like a wacko and as you have told not to lower yourself to her childish behavior. What a nut!!!
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)