THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT??

[CityGirl]

Well gee whiz. As long as you have validation from the OW on what you choose to give to your children then you are all set! <insert eyeroll here>

Greek said it all! This "woman" is clearly a hot mess!

[lea74]

Yeah - lucky me. I get her approval - like I care!!!

[lea74]

She is really pushing me. She just texted my sons on their cell phone. This phone I bought for my sons so that I can call my sons when they are with their dad. The reason I did this was that on a few occassions I could not get hold of them as their Dad didnt answer his phone.

I have decided to not just let things go anymore and have told him via text that this phone is for me to phone the boys on and no other use and to please respect my wishes.

This woman is mad - what the hell is she thinking texting my sons when they are with me. They dont like her, she has taken their dad away from them.

[Steve McQueen]

Time for a boyfriend Lea.

Fool around with someone fun. Ditch the losers.

[lea74]

Steve you are absolutely right - time to move on. How bloody insensitive of her to text and phone my sons when they are with me!!!

I cant do anything about the fact that she gets to spend time with them every other weekend - I dont have to accept her phoning them and texting them when they are with me. Their mother!!!!

[lea74]

Yesterday when I had a chat to XH- he said that he wanted us to be amicable and try to move forward positively for our boys.

I agreed and said that in order to help me move forward they had to meet me half way and stop being so mean to me. He didnt understand this so I gave him some examples. The one thing I find most humiliating is that he brings the OW to my house when he collects the kids. All our neighbours can see her and I find this upsetting - this tupe of things really does not help me move forward. He agreed that when he collected my boys he would park around the side of the house.

Well, well this am he didnt. Not only did he park outside my house she got out of the car as well to greet me kids. I guess this is a retaliation against the fact that my son would not talk to her last and he blames me for it.

This is just so hurtful behaviour!!!!

[lea74]

The craziness continues.

I just got a text from OW saying:

Congratulations on telling the world about your D. You saved us the trouble of having to explain the situation to the boys. Just so you know they are really really happy today

WTF???????

[cesco]

Have you told you H about these texts? If not, I would and set a boundry that she is not to contact you for anything and make him aware that there are children involved. Ow may be insecure or something. She sounds like a wacko and as you have told not to lower yourself to her childish behavior. What a nut!!!

[gatsby11]

Hi-- I don't know you or your sitch besides this thread. But I have to say that this is SO WRONG.

This woman is a hot mess.

Can you block texts from certain numbers? I would try calling the cell phone company to see if that's possible. Actually, a quick google search seemed to indicate it was possible.

Don't let her get to you; she has serious issues.

[lea74]

Thanks for the input. Actually it is not getting to me at all. I am actually finding it quite funny (sorry does that sound crazy now). I just find it funny that my XH has moved onto such a nutter and yes she does sound crazy and also a little desperate.

For the time being I will be keeping the texts as my XH has just issued a court order to me saying I am denying him access. Odd thing is - my kids are with him this weekend so not sure what he means!! I am just doing what my kids ask of me as they obviously feel more comfortable with telling me their feelings rather than their Dad. In act S10 has said that if he behaved really well when with dad maybe he will come back home.

So going to keep the crazy woman's texts in case I need them for court. Really dont want my kids around an obviously unstable person.