Oh FHS, they really are batschitt crazy. Unbelievable that he's worried about you forgetting to dry the laundry????
Very interesting what your lawyer said. I live in NY also. Just waiting to see what my H proposes in a LS. Are you considering what your L said about the money and no divorce?
Well I hope the rain does hold off where you are. It's already started here, but I'm hoping it clears up for later.