Wow, Walking. What a good story and good advice about finding our original selves. I too found that I got a bit boring, yet I totally didn't dislike me as a wife. I think we all make compromises for the relationship, and that changes us somewhat. If you took XH back, could you still be the real you and work on that relationship?
M and H - I too have been trying to hear 'the voice' but find it difficult. So many people post about how their relationship with God or spirit helped them. If I do hear something, I find that I doubt it, thinking it is just my ego or 'voices in my head'. How to know the true voice?
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
