The other day he came up to me with a bit of worry on his face and asked if I thought he was a boring guy. I told him "definately not", but he kept reframing and repeating the question. His eyes had a hint of concern in them. I just couldn't seem to convince him that I did NOT find him boring.
I've also sensed something weird and/or different with my H in that he keeps looking at me in a probing way. I almost sense eggshells under HIS feet for a change.
My take on this whole rash of calls from Wolfie is - perhaps he is grappling with a growing fear that his past deeds might catch up with him - that he has left open that same dark door for you.
The thought of you doing to him what he did to you may be causing him to panic a bit.
I think our spouses must be having a difficult time processing our acceptance of them now that they have not only come back to us - but to themselves as well.
