Yes. Easy to say and hard to do. With time it gets better. I'm still having waves of anger and bitterness but more and more STBXW is like a nanny.
Of course, there's no OM that I know of so I don't have that pain and she's sinking so fast financially that I'm eager to cut the financial ties.
For a long time I'd remember all the good moments. Lately, I've been remembering how few truly good moments there were. There were a lot more down times as I struggled to find the woman I married.
It looks like it's been a struggle since 2006 for you. Really, did the good outweigh the bad since then?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
