Im not sleeping with anyone i have gone to lunch with two people I havent done anything to disrespect the vows i took 18 years ago. but to sit back and to show that I havent been able to move on makes me look like a scolded dog with his tale between his legs. just waiting for the slight chance she might have a change of heart is a sign of weakness, and I think anyone would be able to see that. I wouldnt consider the situation having her back by default I look at it as she sees she made a mistake and would willingly reconcile. There would have to be some serious changes before I would ever take her back but you have to do what you have to do to achieve the the goal
me 46 w 42 m 18 years this april two boys 24 & 14 bomb nov. 9 2009 still fighting to hold on
