I agree with Glamgirl. I would not ask for a list nor would I set it out for him. It is contolling and you are not his mother. Give him a time and day to pick up the things (boundary) and then try not to be around. Right now I think you really need to step back from all of this find your bearings and regroup. When my sitch was emotionally charged - the more I interacted with W the worse I felt.
As hard as it may be try and have a peaceful weekend. Think about some things that you can do for you. Maybe go to a spa and get a massage, get your nails or toes done, go for a run, a walk in the park - anything that can take your mind off of this. Do not let him pull you back in.
God Bless and know that u r not alone in this.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
