Good for you newmama. I think you are totally on the right track with making yourself "expensive". Definitely think that people put more value on that which is less available and withdrawing and playing "hard to get" is the right 180 for you now. Keep it up!
I continue to be impressed with your hoping for the best and preparing for the worst. I can't seem to pull off the hoping for the best part any more
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.