Newbie.Trying with faith and hope to save marriage

[papayachic]

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it sure sounds like there is OW in the picture now.

This is textbook on how people start acting when they are interested in someone else.

That is more than likely what you are up against. The other reasons are just excuses.

After reading other threads, I was thinking this as well.
He never emails, checked that and nothing. Since I took care of the bills and our credit, I checked that and nothing. He has no credit cards just one that I have. He is now unemployed and I just sent up his unemp card and nothing there as well.

We have joint phone and he does not know I can check his calls and texts. I knew every number but 2. A cell number and landline

Cell number there have been 9 texts since 5/4(3 weeks ago) 2 days after the bomb. I called it, blocked of course, and the voicemail was of a woman named "W".

The landline phone number hes talked to for the last 2 weeks and its basically been a few times a day but only for a minute or two.I called and the answering machine confirmed it was of this woman named "W".

So now I'm DEVASTATED. I am pretty sure its OW.If it is, its an EA that started 3 weeks ago, possibly even PA.