Mila my suggestion is you NOT get a list and set it out for him. Can be seen as control. Just pick a time and you be gone when he arrives. Not sure if your h has access to the house still or if you will need to let him in.

Just my thoughts.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"