No, I haven't served him with anything, I am trying NOT to litigate or go to court, or file for D or anything like that. When WH first left (left us in a sold house and got his own place, was dating, etc) I submitted financial statements to my L, so he and WH's L could work out some sort of support for me and the kids. WH is supposed to fill one out too, so that the L's can determine how much support he should give us to live on. WH won't fill his out.