SC...

I am so sorry that your H is doing what he is doing...

He is still confused...mlc=confusion. HE may think that he is taking action to reconcile...he is still blaming you...he has a different idea of what reconciling means than you do apparently!

Your H sounds like he is acting like the teenager and is probably why he shared the text with your teen. Like "see..."I" am trying to make this marraige work but your Mom...."

Was reading something HB said about the LBS being the "pillar of strength". Be the pillar SC!!!

Make a big deal of it when he brings the kids back...that they had a great time etc...make sure you do something nice for yourself while they are gone!

That is all you can do!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing