Today, WH argues with me by text message... says we're still reconciling, doesn't understand why I want a L.
I say, what reconciling? You live in another city and have NO plans to live with us, and go wherever you want with whomever you want.
He says he "must" live there to work, I am being incredibly inconsiderate. He also says he wont live with me again until he figures out how it won't be toxic.
He also says "exchanges like this don't convince me we've solved that problem yet".
and so on.
Basically, he says my point of view is not valid, should not be incorporated into his "plan", that he has NO plans to live with me, that I have no right to speak up and/or complain. AND THAT THIS IS RECONCILING??????
Tonight he gave me a brownie with a bite taken out of it, insulted me in front of the kids, and then left with the kids for the weekend.
Oh, then he let teenager read the entire exchange (I know because teenager tm'd me from WH's phone!!!!!!)
What do you read in the tm exchange, please tell me what you see, please!