Had a long night at work,usually my shift ends at 6am but did not get home till 9am. As I said W called off work. When I got home W was still in bed. I went to sleep immediately. A few times I heard my W trying to hush the dog because I was sleeping.
I woke up and did my own thing, ate breakfast, went out in the backyard...W eventually came out to the backyard and brought the Kan Jam with her, so we played for a little bit and then like little kids we went and jumped around on my nephew's new trampoline. W then said "do you want to go in a play a game or two before we go visit father's GF" I said sure so we fooled around with the game then left.
On the way W wanted to stop and get FIL GF some flowers and so we did. While in the store W would say "This would look nice in the backyard" , "We should get these/this" but I just said "yeah, I think so too" or something along those lines and then continued on.
We get up tot eh hospital and FIL shows up shortly after we did. FIL greeted me briefly and would not even look me in my eyes. We visited for a little bit and chit chatted with FIL then left. After we left I said to W "I think your father may have lost some respect for me, because he would not even look me in my eyes or address me" and usually he does. W said he is just under a lot of stress and that is why. Just for the record when things with FIL GF were a lot worse, the most stressful of times FIL was good to me.
During our chit chat with FIL, my W and FIL spoke about the house and the progress that he is making. W did not bring up that she is moving there, even when we briefly spoke about the work FIL has done to the house. W even told FIL how we just bought a new patio set....
On the way back home I wanted to stop by a store and said to W "I want to stop at <store name> I can take you home first and then get in my car and go or do you want to join me?" W said she would go along. We went to a few different stores and W would say "We should look at this/that" or express interest in things for the house. W did get a few items for the house.
We stopped and got ice cream on the way home. When we got home, I went out back....W soon joined me and we fooled around with the dog for a little bit before W asking if I wanted to once again play the game (when I say game, I am talking about a couple games W just bought for her Wii console, mainly family feud lol).
After playing around for a little bit, W went to shower...
Day was OK. W did not seem as bitter as she usually is. I participated in these "games" because after all I don't mind having fun. I am trying to detach the best I can, I just keep reminding myself "W fell in love with OM" and "W's heart is broken over OM" helps me not get attached.
W spoke future tense quite a few times today. I say and ask nothing, I just carry on.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
