Well, I did it. This is my first post from my own home. DD is with H and I have the evening to myself. I'm being a bum! When I left DD, it was hard, but I knew I'd see her tomorrow, so I made it ok.
DD was angry that I wasn't going to be there tonight, so she demanded to know why. I told her to ask Daddy. If he thinks this is going to be easy for her, he needs to see the emotions play out. She got even angrier when H told her "mommy and daddy will be living in separate houses" and looked at me and shouted "FINE JUST GO!" H was close to tears, and I knew I had to be the strong one so I gave DD a hug, told her goodnight, see you tomorrow, and left.
This is going to sound horrible, but I hope she makes him feel like dirt. He continues to believe this is the best thing and she'll "just get over it, kids are resilient" so he really needs a hard dose of reality.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
When I left DD, it was hard, but I knew I'd see her tomorrow, so I made it ok.
