I know, BD, I had the butt for a long time, and I still do, but now I have a distinct foot. And it's more attention grabbing than the other. smile I bet yours will start poking out soon!

We are easing back into contact. We both prefer email because I think phone and in person is a little much for both of us. And especially with a topic as delicate as this, I wanted to approach him with our tried and true method. I did suggest phone calls in the email, though, because it's much more practical for baby logistics.

Ha ha, the last part of your message is so cute. WH and I have both been so ummmm anti-baby for most of our relationship. We joked at the beginning of the pregnancy that we wouldn't get the baby a crib; we'd just throw a blanket on the floor and line it with WH's clean clothes that he never put away. Ha ha, it makes me laugh now! For some reason we both just liked being shocking about baby stuff. (We also joked that we'd name him-- we thought was a boy-- Jacket. I really played that one a lot. And that he'd have one toy. And that he'd have 10 outfits. I could go on and on!) I just thought that we both would transition through this undesirable baby stuff together. But that's not how it worked out. I obviously didn't take his feelings very seriously and ran with it in a humorous way. And now I've really become quite maternal feeling. So. . . yeah. Better explanation about my first line for ya.

Thanks for your input!