I agree, BND, Irish. XW has no valid reason to impose on us as she does. She also tries to ask S9 each time whether they want her to stop by or not. Of course they (my S's) always say yes -- and if I were to countermand their agreement, then I would be seen as the bad guy. Grrrrrrrr. I can't win, ...not the way it stands.
I need to talk to the PC again. He's made himself so scarce, but I need to continue to catch him.
FYI, the hateful xMIL lives nearby xW, in this same apartment complex, no less. So you've got me, xW & OM and xMIL in three separate apartments, three separate buildings, but in the same complex. Almost seems like my worst nightmare -- only thing worse would be if we were under the same freaking' roof!
