Hope.

[Shelby]

This time we are having problems because we have lack of intamcy, we have worked to make a strong family, but we have neglected each other. 2 weeks ago I finally couldn't take it anymore and brought it all up, his answer is divorce, He says He loves me but is not in love with me. He just feels like there is something missing from the marraige, and I obviously agree, although I think we can work on it and make us a couple again.

He seemed to think Divorce was the only answer. I told him how we needed to work on US, start going out with out the Kids, spend time alone together.The last we had a serious talk about it he was still leaning towards divorce. I started DBing, GAL and 180 and some LRT. Last weekend I couldn't take it anymore and finally asked if he was still planning on leaving( I know big mistake & I won't make it again) All he said was "we need to go out just the 2 of us to talk about US" well a week has gone by and we still haven't had any kind of talk.

But in this time I have seen some very positive changes:
*He still kisses me goodbye every morning before he leaves for work.
*He says ILY before he leaves Most mornings.
* He has started to ask me how my day was at the end of the day.
* He has spooned me on several nights.

So If actions speak louder than words, I am seeing a change, that he may want to work on the marraige with me. Although I have had no verbal confirmation of this, it sure feels like it.

Thank You, A.