Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Kerry, Gardener, flowmom, Geronimo (and all the others that read my thread) thank you for your words of support, advice and encouragement.

We just settled the temporary support order out of court at the 11th hour. We'll still have to meet at the court house on Monday but won't have to appear before a judge- I didn't care either way at this point. I don't think the agreement was great but it was a middle-of-road for both of us. Though, it would've been very similar to what the court would've ordered. I know she's not making a lot of money right now and probably having financial difficulties so I'm fine with it because ultimately it'll affect my DD too. I just hate the thought of her taking part of my paycheck and choosing to be with another guy. Just doesn't sit well with me. I need to find a way to let go and think of her as nothing more than our DD's mother. It's easy to say but hard to do in practice when so many things and even the streets and the beaches and the shops remind me of all the times we spent together and had fun. Funny she chooses to only think of the bad moments.