I understand that anxiety G, and thank God we feel it! We shouldn't stand in their way once the babies are born. It's important we give the WHs the opp to do the right thing, and if they don't, they can live with the consequences and we can live with a good conscience!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369