I don't mean to be a dick, cause I love ya, but you GOTTA try as hard as you can, and I mean REALLY, REALLY REALLY not worry about your wife right now.
For right now, you just have to let go.
For a month.
Give it that.
For one freakin' month, just worry about yourself.
A month isnt even that long of a time, you know?
One month of just you, just james. We'll even name it.