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THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? #2007607 05/21/10 06:49 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542 L lea74 OP Member
OP lea74 Member L Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542	So in a little bit of shock my the OW just sent me a text saying that she agreed with a decision I had made. I replied: Who are you??? She then said: You surprise me you know who I am - you have texted me and phone me before. (I never saved her number). I reponded: Leave me alone. She said: I just wanted to complement you on your decision. I think it is great. Have a nice evening. I ignored this. She then texted me: DOnt think you can harrass me night and day and that I wouldnt keep yor number. You are the mother of the boys and may need to contact you. Well WTF!!! She has been the one having the affair with myu H and also she has phoned and texted my H at all times of the day, on our hoidays, on special occassionetc. I have contacted her only twice in two years, not exactly harrassing. I know she is just trying to get me to react so I wll just ignore. But interesting to note ath she uses the same language as My h does in his texts. Last edited by lea74; 05/21/10 06:50 PM. Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? lea74 #2007615 05/21/10 06:57 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,451 G Greek Member
Greek Member G Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,451	Lea, You, of course, have nothing to say this person. Ignore it ALL. You are far to fine a lady to mix with such. Nose in the air, shoulders back, toss your hair and brush the dust off your strappy sandals...don't respond to her. Greek Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08 Happily ever after is one day at a time.

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? Greek #2007624 05/21/10 07:11 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 374 Michigan G gman Member
gman Member G Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 374 Michigan	^^^^exactly! M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? gman #2007630 05/21/10 07:19 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless Member
luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	ick!....disgusting. M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? Greek #2007633 05/21/10 07:21 PM
Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,831 PEI, Canada P PEI Member
PEI Member P Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,831 PEI, Canada	Originally Posted By: Greek Lea, You, of course, have nothing to say this person. Ignore it ALL. You are far to fine a lady to mix with such. Nose in the air, shoulders back, toss your hair and brush the dust off your strappy sandals...don't respond to her. Greek ^^^^^ what Greek said!!!! Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? PEI #2007636 05/21/10 07:26 PM
Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,024 Ontario , Canada N ninelives Member
ninelives Member N Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,024 Ontario , Canada	Some people have absolutely no class. Makes you wonder what type of upbringing they had. What Greek said, Do NOT stoop to her level. BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? ninelives #2007644 05/21/10 07:35 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542 L lea74 OP Member
OP lea74 Member L Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542	I have been always worried about her as she gives off the crazy vibe. I often thought the attraction to my H was my kids, or rather that she was using my kids to get to him. She is not a cooky crazy, but rather, that devious, psychotic crazy, who believes their own unrasonable behaviour. (Kinda like bunny boiler!!) Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? lea74 #2007648 05/21/10 07:41 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,451 G Greek Member
Greek Member G Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,451	Well, Lea doesn't talk to bunny boilers, either. Greek Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08 Happily ever after is one day at a time.

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? Greek #2007710 05/21/10 09:09 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542 L lea74 OP Member
OP lea74 Member L Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 542	The irony of it all is that she texted to complement me on my decision that I had bought my sons a kitten. I wouldnt have had to buy them a kitten to get over our D if she hadnt had an A with their dad!!! Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived

Re: THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT?? lea74 #2007723 05/21/10 09:30 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,408 G gucci loafer Member
gucci loafer Member G Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,408	Text her back and tell her that getting rid of him WAS THE BEST DECISION you have ever made..... Let her think that she got a lemon in the trade.... YEP..

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