Going over the divorce papers is brutal. She is brutal said an attorney I spoke with. He said I definitely need an attorney. I agree. I have been emotional again today.
OMW is upset. This situation is just out of control. I cannot believe all the crap that is being done to me by her. Unbelievable. She has some serious issues.
I just want this over.
Hang in there, buddy.
I'm not in the position that you are in, but I do think I know at least some of the pain that you're going through. It's still hard to believe that someone you gave your heart and soul to could do something like this with, seemingly, no thought of the family as a whole. You will never understand because it makes no sense.
She has put you in a position that requires tough action on your part. Do what you need to do with no reservations. Protect yourself and those wonderful kids.
Ask yourself this: If she changed her mind tomorrow, would I take her back? If you are honest with yourself, I will bet that your answer would be different today than it was a couple of week ago. I know you have been through a lot this week, but that inner strength and survival mechanism is kicking in. You will find strength that you never knew you had, believe me. You and your kids will be okay.
