...and we are supposed to take all of these feelings and make ourselves better so our spouse will love us again....and there is a chance that you do all these things and they wont love you anymore and no matter how hard you try nothing matters.
NO! We are supposed to make ourselves better so WE love OURSELVES again. Period. This is where most people are lost. We can not control whether or not our spouses love us again, but we can control how much we love ourselves and how well we take care of ourselves - how well we nourish our own souls.
Honestly, how attractive do any of you think it is to be so lacking in self esteem that you would take anything, endure anything just to have your spouse not leave you? Buck up. Love yourselves because you are worthy, treat yourselves well.
((((hugs to all))))
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
