I am sorry that you find yourself here. We are all at different stages of divorce...either just filed, filed but trying to save it, divorced and hoping things will change, divorced and moving on and heck even thriving.

It takes time to not feel hurt. Are you hoping to reconcile at some point? I would say if not, you should limit calls to issues concerning your kids. He won't miss what he has access too on a regular basis, so don't let him have that.

Hang in there, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory