2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

My other goal is to not ruin his first contact with his child by starting a war with him.

well then, don't send the email until after the birth so you can hold off the war!

And I think you will have no problem sticking to your values because you have been!

And I meant to thank you for helping me understand something- you said that maybe if I had been separated longer than 3 months from WH before S' birth, I would have been able to detach more and made different decisions. This comforts me a great deal! Thank you! Of course I have been so mad at myself for wasting time between July-October and wondering why I was so "weak!" But the point you make helps me to be gentle with myself!