Quote: It is normal to have some mistrust, BUT: 1. It is MY job to decide if there is a REALISTIC basis to my fears. 2. If there IS NOT a REALISTIC basis, it is MY job to force myself to stop obsessing. 3. If there IS a REALISTIC basis, it is MY job to bring my fears to my H and ask for help to deal with my mistrust. 4. If he can--he can, if he can't--he can't, but at least I have come to him. In the end, it is MY job to deal with it.
I love this Tal--helps to put things into perspective--I'll keep this in the memory banks if H and I ever get here....I wonder how the trust issue works if they come back--I know it would be beyond difficult!
