Gatsby, as usual, you are a smart cookie! Yes...if you have already said this stuff to WH then why repeat it. And I guess it could be sent post birth as well. Sorry to be flaky, Piano, but that email sure had some good points that I think WH needs to hear!! at some point...maybe today isn't the best day.
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And I understand if you don't care what he thinks today, but what would you think in two months if he was still in town?
Piano's email did indicate she wanted WH to be happy, that she wanted him to have a relationship with their daughter, that one day maybe they could be friends. The other things she said were, well as Puppy puts it, "truth darts." Just stating the facts, you know? So if she were to send this email at some point, I don't see how it would make her WH not want to reconcile. But I see that maybe there isn't any need to send it right away....
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004