Is there OW? How long have you been separated? Was there a time that he acted like he wanted to work it out? I know EXACTLY what you mean about the nightmare. I'd give anything for it to be over. I keep telling myself we're on our way-I mean he's said he's commited to us and talks as if he'll be moving back in. I think I need to back off-I'm sure he's feeling me pursuing. When he's acting right it doesn't feel like pursuing because he's treating me the same way. When he distances-which he denies doing, I feel like I'm definately pursuing. Maybe that's what he wants. It's been our pattern and maybe he backs off to get me in that pursuer role. I wonder.......Rachael
