It may be a bit late to put up a face book page celebrating your marriage NOW... it would just look desperate in my opinion.
You want to focus on OM and how meddlesome this is..
More important TWolf...
1. I am NOT suggesting you get these people to TALK to your wife... Where did you get that idea? 2. I am NOT suggesting you text people quietly 3. I AM suggesting you ASK people to CUT your WIFE OUT of their social circle as long as she is cheating on you - and ask them to INFORM her WHY your wife and OM are no longer welcome to visit them or contact hem 4. I AM suggesting you go to OM's place of work, in PERSON, and make a SCENE accusing him of being a sleaze and attacking your family and having sex with your wife.. - humiliate this man in this workplace - Note, I don't know the "harassment" laws in your area so you will have to weigh this one 5. You could have your BIL visit OM"s home and apply some pressure - etc... scare the guy off
You want to make BOTH of them find this affair to be STRESSFUL, EMBARRASING, and DESTRUCTIVE
IF OM has to be humiliated in his workplace, yoru wife loses all her freinds, and OM has your buddies following him around making him nervous, THESE things will make them think twice about what they are doing, but it has to be THEM that want it over.. you have to make it NOT WORTH IT.. GOT IT?
Find leverage you can and apply it...
Stop texting quietly.. visit people in PERSON, get your face out there... Texts look cheap and sleazy... COWARDS who violate homes text people ... MEN talk FACE to FACE and show respect... got it?
Plus, your spelling is a challenge for you so stop writing to people, sorry, but bad spelling really turns people off. Mine is a challenge to, but for formal letters I use a spell checker and I don't know if you are that PC savvy yet
EVERYONE who agrees to support you, visit them, take them a gift, THANK them in PERSON for agreeing to support you... get thsoe contacts out there
If you HAD made more BONDS with wife's social circle earlier this may nto have happened... tune out your wife's contacts at yoru own risk.. I think you get that now..
