RMC, it was definately bits and pieces. We were S for 9 months and even after we were going to MC because he "wanted to get back together" and had stated he WAS going to come home, he drug out the process and wishy-washed around to the point I wanted to throttle him!
There were lots of lightbulbs going off in his head the whole time and I will try to think of some of the major ones to list for you.
