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PEI #2006910 05/20/10 06:35 PM
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Thanks guys....all noted


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Married 14 years
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Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
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Just remember it's a process and it takes TIME smile

As Coach would say ... you can handle it!


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
PEI #2006929 05/20/10 06:58 PM
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3 months and counting


M: 39
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Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
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It sucks big time (((Barkley)))


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
PEI #2006949 05/20/10 07:19 PM
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Yes it does...Pei, yes it does....


M: 39
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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
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BTW...Ican't seem to find any eletronic versions of Divorce Remedy. Do they sell it anywhere?


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
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owie,owie,owie,owie.....sorry just felt like saying that this hurts


M: 39
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Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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Not sure re the electronic copies ... I still read my books the old fashioned way LOL!

No apologies! It DOES hurt ... a lot ... but it gets better and it hurts less (and then it sucks again, and hurts more, and then it gets better and hurts less ... you get the picture ... the good news is the cycles get longer and the hurts are less intense ...)


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
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I feel like this is all a bad dream and hopefullt I might wake up


M: 39
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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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Originally Posted By: Barkley
I feel like this is all a bad dream and hopefully I might wake up


If only it were that easy!

You will learn as you go. Learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them.

Remember, most things that you will be told will work are counter intuitive. It doesn't seem like they should, but trust the vets and everyone else's posts here. When we get the courage to do some of these things and have the patience to wait it out and not expect an immediate positive response, that is when most sitch's turn around. Of course, all sitch's are different and not all can be saved. Your best chance is to listen and do the hard work even when it doesn't feel like the thing to do.

Hang in there and be a quicker study than I was.


Me-43
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TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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