He just sends so many mixed signals... he went from saying absolutely NOT to not now or maybe down the line... have to remind myself not to listen or believe what he says!
I swear it must be because he doesn't know what he wants! It sucks that it has to be what they want, but it is because we want them....arghhh!
Well it is good that you can distance yourself from him at the classes and appointments. If you can, try to think of ways you can "reject" him! Hey think of it like this- just as you are always going to be around in his mind, he is acting like he will always be around (as a part time father) so what have you got to lose?
So you don't call him back right away. Or you text instead of call and only be brief and only about the baby. Nothing personal. If you had some health issue you can tell him. Don't drive with him to class. If you used to do certain things for him then don't do them anymore.
Now this might be tough for you- for some reason, I couldn't do it very well for the longest time because I didn't want to hurt WH!!! WTF?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
