WAH and LBW separated and dark

[DumpedforMIL]

hi ajm - welcome to my crazy thread. sorry you had to meet me in the state i was in this week.

Don't try to eat this elephant all at once - they are best eaten in pieces.

but it tastes yucky. you want to eat it all and fast so you don't gag.

He will want the pain to stop for himself as well.

somehow i don't buy this one.
i don't think he feels pain.
he feels sorry for himself because he's being taken advantage of this jezebel here.
and i feel no sympathy.
this is a matter of conscious choice for him.
so now he should feel great.

if he doesn't, i just want to say "i told you so but you listened to your mommy and daddy."
go ahead, continue to blame me. you're looking extremely stupid by the minute.

I can tell you that your H will not remember much of this the same way you will. Really. It's bizarre, but it's true.

how so? can you give me an example.

Finally - take deep breaths. Often. What you feel is perfectly normal and we have all done the same. Some for longer than others. It has a new set of emotions that will follow. Your roller coaster is going to be interesting for a while. Take the ride. Get your money's worth and you may be surprised at what you find. In a good way

are you speaking from experience? please share.

i am going to try and be calm. i think i am doing the right thing by leaving for a few days. this week has just be nasty.

dumped.