The last thing I want is to be a source of stress for you and the baby for that important moment, so I will respect your decision. I look forward to meet the little girl, hopefully as soon as she arrives to this world.I hope the birth will go well, easy and peacefully, and the way you want it."
If you must write that email (although I don't think you need to!) then he did say he will respect your decision and doesn't want to be a source of stress. Maybe something like
Thank you for respecting my decision. I will invite you in to meet our daughter when she and I are ready.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
