2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

I know he is not demanding as such, but he keeps pushing his wishes nonetheless. I feel like he's got NO compassion for me at all..

This is what I thought as well! OK I really strongly suggest that you DO NOT reply.
You told him what you want, he told you what he wants. Well guess what? YOU are the one having the baby and HE CHOSE TO LEAVE. Therefore screw his wishes!!!

You see, the baby will be born...no one has to rush out and tell your H (who has insisted that he not be there at the birth but wait in the lobby). They will be cleaning her up, stitching you up, then put her on you, and if she doesn't have a fever or anything she probably gets to just hang out in the room! So I can't imagine your H ever finding out when she is born until you tell someone to tell him.

Now be aware that you might want everyone in the world to come and see your daughter and you could feel like you love everyone and want H to come in. That's ok! Those feelings fade after a couple of days when sleep deprivation sets in, lol!