I hear ya......quite frankly if it weren't for GOD and my kids, I would have just told my wife to take a hike
I felt the same way. But, as Coach once pointed out, she can probably sense that. That is where true detachment comes in. I understand it more all the time. I want to save my M. I don't want to lose my W. I will be okay without her. I can't make her stay if she has decided to leave or believes she has found someone better. Let her go and find out that she really doesn't have it so bad. Especially after we have done much soul searching and improvement to ourselves.
